Never mind a boy, I would like a game.

A role-playing game. A game that is minimally systemic or code-driven. A game that inspires me. A game that has intricate plot, but simple background. A game that has players that get in there and are friendly. A game that has staff that are committed and involved. A game I could play.

I'm serious here. I'm looking for a great game - preferably online, of the mu* persuasion. Of almost any persuasion in the fantasy/post-apocalyptic/cyberpunk mode. Not sci-fi. I adored XET because of the concept, but it is lacking in the involvement stakes. I don't know where to find a great game. All suggestions very much welcome.